Empty Thoughts: blah-bitty-blah

random kayla-fact of the day.... i write before i make a title. it's true. probably because i don't know what i'm going to write about or where it's going to end up, so it's easier for me to just ramble and then come up with a "fitting title" after the fact.
another random fact- i think people are too obsessed with money and things. yeah, i think that money is nice and things are really nice, but i believe that i would rather be with a man that works hard for what he has as opposed to a man who has just had everything handed to him his entire life. besides, there's just something really sexy about a hard working man.
i'm obsessed with school, love, and children. some people are obsessed with animals- my obsession is people. little people. i would actually love to adopt someday, or even have more children (somehow)... and i see school as something that makes me better. even if i never do anything with my newfound knowledge, at least i'll have it. i love to learn. i love to read. and love. i love to love. i love to be loved. i love to be in love. i love to see other people in love. i cried at my best friend's wedding last week, not just because it's a wedding and it's emotional and beautiful, but because they love eachother. they truly love eachother. i've seen people get married before that really shouldn't have. they were doing it for the "wrong reasons", but not these two. i've seen them go from strangers, to friends, to a couple, to what they are now--- one. i've seen them fight. i've heard them yell, and i've heard the "make up" stories, as well. these two are gonna make it. they laugh together. they fight together. they hang out in opposite sides of the house and are still content because they are together. they are not jealous. they let eachother be who they really are. they don't have to be anything other than just what they are. they spent an entire week on their honeymoon together... disconnected from "home" and are now on their way back--- and they still like eachother. i highly doubt i could do that with my husband. actually, i know i couldn't. we could probably spend a weekend away, but even then we would have to have other people with us. we don't do things alone. ever. i think that couples need that. i think that is a crucial part of being a functional couple. you need to do things together- just the two of you. but, just as important- you need to do things with other people... couples or a group of friends. and probably most important of all- you need space. you need to have your own interests- do things that you enjoy away from your "significant other". i think that's why it works with them... they do all of these things. they are completely open with eachother. i can honestly say that she married her best friend, and in that moment- watching her repeat vows to love and honor him til death... i couldn't help but cry. its what everyone looks for. it's what most all little girls (and grown women) dream of. i know i do. and she's got it.
i love that girl so much. she is beautiful and kind and smart and hilarious and she loves me exactly as i am. and i am soooo proud of her, and happy for her, and excited about everything that is going to come to them over the course of the next 50 or so years.
ha! this started completely random and ended up being about my stinka winka and her codemeister... now do you see why i don't write a title first??